If we don’t have peace of mind in our home, we can feel like we don’t belong anywhere. Wrong assumptions are damaging to relationships. We probably all have been on the giving and receiving end of that. That’s why it’s important to own up to our errors and work to resolve conflict.
When someone asks me a question and I give them an honest answer, because that’s all I can ever do, it’s quite infuriating to be disbelieved, because it’s implying that I’m a liar. As any Sagittarius will tell you, we don’t lie… if anything, we speak our Truth, vehemently, if necessary. Our challenge is to find the balance and speak our truth with love and compassion. However, because we don’t lie, the gloves come off when someone implies otherwise, and we will fight and assert ourselves with the full fury that only a fire sign can muster.
The irony is, as a Sag, I am adventurous, freedom-and-fun-loving, gregarious and bold, yet below the surface, my Pisces Ascendant drives an intuitive and sensitive mystic who fearlessly understands how to navigate the dark depths of the Scorpionic influence in her 8th house. Just because I can face darkness, look it in the eye and call it out, doesn’t mean I’ve surrendered to it. In order to embody the Light, the higher aspects of self, it is necessary to delve into, transmute and release the dark. With all this fire and water, things inevitably get churned up. Thinking or trying to figure it out is not the key to understanding, which actually comes from the realm of instinctual knowledge.
I found this Scorpio season video for all signs to be helpful with this process. You may glean “aha!” moments of insight from it, too. I am also looking forward to moving mid-November.