Jennifer Hoffman: Right, Wrong, and The Truth

I recently had a rather heated discussion with a friend who was trying to convince me that I was wrong about something. She was quite irritated that I would not agree with her because as far as I was concerned I wasn’t wrong, I just had a different perspective than she did, which was my truth and it conflicted with her truth.

I also noticed that I wasn’t trying as hard to convince her of my ‘right-ness’ as she was in insisting that I was wrong. This wasn’t about right or wrong, though, it was about truth.

Any time there is a right or wrong in a situation, the real issue at hand is the truth, and whose truth is true.

Some people will go to great lengths to assert that they know best, they are right, and they know the truth. But truth is a funny thing because as much as we want to know ‘the Truth’, all we can really know for sure is what is true for us. Someone else’s truth is theirs alone. We may agree or share an opinion about it but truth, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. And when they ask us to validate their truth, what they are really asking for is validation that they are worthy of our validation, acceptance, and ultimately, of our love.

When my friend insisted that I agree with her, I knew it was personal and went far beyond me and this small incident. For her, it one more time that she had to prove herself and her truth and I was one more person who didn’t agree with her. Although I did agree with her in principle, I just didn’t agree with her truth.

Since she was making this so  personal I had to wonder who had made her so wrong in her life that she needed to have her truth validated by hearing me repeat it back to her.

Why wasn’t it enough for her to know her truth and be comfortable with it? Because it wasn’t about her truth, it was about getting me to agree that it was true.

In changing and uncertain times, when the truths that have sustained us for so long suddenly become no longer true, we need to re-establish a foundation where we feel secure and validated. A changing truth can be that someone we love doesn’t love us any more, or the job that sustained us doesn’t need us any more, a friend decides they no longer want our friendship, or we have to acknowledge that we have been living a life that doesn’t make us happy.

We can find a new truth but that isn’t what we really want. We want someone to tell us that we are right, true, worthy and deserving. So we go looking for truth when all we really want is validation, acceptance, and love.

Because that is our greatest need, to be valued and valuable, validated by others so we know we exist and are heard, loved, appreciated and to know that someone, anyone, agrees with our truth. And our fear is that the truth will reveal what we have always been afraid to find out, that we are not worthy, lovable or deserving.

Is it possible to be comfortable with our truth, even if no one else thinks it’s true?

It depends on what it is but since truth is personal, as long as it is true for us, we’re aligned with it, it’s authentic and it makes us happy, that’s the only truth we need to know.

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Our Counterpoint to the Mischief of the Dark Cabal by Starship Earth: The Big Picture

Starship Earth is such an outspoken voice in the community. I felt it was especially important to reblog this. -PB

Our Counterpoint to the Mischief of the Dark Cabal

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I think it’s a good time to share words of wisdom from Sierra Neblina’s Facebook page.

Knowing and understanding what has transpired in France and elsewhere is one thing; getting sucked into fear and negativity is quite another.

We, as conscious Beings, have a choice, and I believe Sierra is correct.


Adding to the hate and violence–even in thought—only feeds the fire. We need to retain our detached positions of observation and feed the Light, instead, with positive intentions.

We are close to the resolution of this global problem. We know our Star Families are here to support us—there’s ample proof of that—but they can only do so much at this point.

As Drake reminded us on his show last Wednesday, they don’t like being shot at—so VISUAL disclosure is a ways off.

WE have to take responsibility for our current situation until the cabal is rendered impotent and the game changes.

Let us do whatever we can to advance toward the end of the suffering and our final liberation, and resist their attempts to distract us from what we came here to do.

The talking heads are very skilled in that regard, as this cartoon reminds us. Distraction has been so easy, but as the numbers of the Awakened swell, we are equipped to counteract their efforts.

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For those who think this kind of talk is new-age woo-woo, please consider that you have been deceived in every possible way as to the nature of the world you live in, as you may just be discovering now.

The truth about everything has been hidden to render you powerless to take your destiny into your own hands. The wonders of who you are have been smothered and strangled until you’ve almost given up hope.

You HAVE the power to change what IS; and together, unified, we can bring great change. 

The power of mass meditation has long been documented, and we cannot afford to ignore its benefits.

When I ponder it—I get delightful images of the Na’vi people in the movie ‘Avatar’, linked and swaying in perfect unison as their voices rose in their healing meditation.

That is the way the Universe works. One people. One thought. Peace.  ~ BP


 

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BREAKING: To all my friends…

Please, now is the time during the violence happening in France, to focus our conscious Light and Intention towards this situation. Resist the urge to fall into fear around this. Resist the urge to want to fight or defend.
NOW is the time for LOVE- NOW is the time for LIGHT – NOW is the time to take your place as Conscious Creators of the New Earth.
PLEASE RISE UP IN LIGHT. Focus your clear intention that this will cease. Focus your attention towards healing the wounds of this for the people and the impact this has on the collective consciousness.
If there are any people or meditation groups who are witnessing this, this is the time to gather and send your light. We cannot afford as a nation, country or sovereign people to engage in anything other than peace.
Let us stand and send our love and support to the families that are impacted right now and lay down our urge to fight anything. This is a symptom of a much larger issue and if we do not feed the beast it will die away. Please share with your family and friends.
Much love
Sierra Neblina